I work in healthcare, not even direct patient care, but hear stories like yours all of the time. Being in MN and my company recently having decided to no longer accept Badger Care due to its worse than Medicare reimbursement rates, makes me especiallysympathetic to your situation. Many prayers that things turn around for you. And agreed, you need a new lawyer.
Sorry to learn of your troubles with the government. I had some difficulties with the VA and SSD, but you have suffered (Your Family also) far more stress than I. You show persistence and strength, “don’t let the bastards grind you down”. I admire that.